There are many ways to make friends or meet people; however, nowadays, many people do so through the internet, whether with websites, apps, or social media. Another way to connect is through mail: as pen pals, or “Snail Mail” as some call it. As a pen pal, you can meet people from all around the world and learn about different cultures, languages and lifestyles.
“It’s less pressure than texting because you don’t feel like you have to keep up the conversation for hours a day,” said Bend High senior Samara Bristol, who has been sending letters for two years. Through this form of communication, she has made new friends and stayed in contact with family members.
“It’s an easy way to connect with people in other parts of the world,” added Bristol, who has learned about different cultures, religions, and traditions while making new friends. Nowadays, what people know about other countries, cultures, and people is based on what they hear on the internet and the news. However, by taking time to learn about these things from someone who lives and experiences them firsthand, you have the opportunity to learn how another person sees them and not have bias by what you have seen in the media.
Another plus to sending letters is that it can be a form of artistic expression; scrapbooking together stickers, paper, photos and other things can show the receiver a glimpse into a different culture and daily life.
“Getting a letter in the mail is actually super fun,” said Bristol. Compared to an email or text message, receiving a letter feels more personal; it’s something that you can look forward to and enjoy.
